It took me a while to understand the space between feeling lonely and being alone is called self sufficiency.
and self-sufficiency, despite being a much celebrated thought, has been more often than not, a cumbersome process.
what i also realised is, this however has got nothing to do with being in a romantic relationship, having enough friends around or a family for support. yes, the degrees might differ but what self-sufficiency has to do with is, the person we are or choose to be from within, despite the situations varying around us from time to time.
the space in my head and on this platform is limited at present, so i wouldn’t be going into the depths of deciphering how to be a self sufficient being.
but what i intend to tell you is, the least you can do is to figure out if you are there yet or even in the process to become one. we are often not aware of our dependency on our everyday lives until one day, (maybe due to an unfortunate event) we are and then it gets too late or rather too strenuous to start from scratch.
so on a frequent basis, ask yourselves the difficult questions.
do you spend any time with yourself at all, barring any distractions? what makes the centre of your world? how do you react to criticism, constructive and otherwise? are you always on your phone when you are alone? do all the relationships you are in, bank primarily on dependency? when was the last time you had gone out on your own? does the idea of a solo trip make you uncomfortable?
it’s said that nothing can bring you peace but yourself. i would say, even you can’t bring yourself peace, unless you are self sufficient. it is, in all honesty, the first step towards actual freedom
so start the process if you haven’t already, will you? :) also would love to know your thoughts on the same.
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