Happy freezing friday 😩
i was feelin this sunset drenched lük hello
tw: online s****l harassment below
so last weekend, a young bengali male ‘slid in to my dms’. he started the convo with “i’m hard” as a response to a photo of me. i was shook to my core cause firstly, unsolicited dirty talking is like finding maggots in your food. secondly, this little dude kept insisting that i have video s*x with him because he’s made other girls do it. either way, after a few messages, i told him to call me apu 😂 then announced that i will be blocking him. he obviously got defensive and blamed me for being uptight etc.
anyway, main point of the story is that, a week later i’m still a lil traumatized to have someone feel like a wall that my words couldn’t get through to. he wasn’t even registering that i said no? my hands felt tied in protecting myself and women in general from encounters like this. it seems my culture is producing men who will wreak havoc on women or any other thing that they can dominate to get their way for any little thing. i hate to admit this but some bengali men really scare me with their lack of awareness and for their immersion in r**e culture that’s never addressed. i want to say it’s not their fault but fam, if you can look up the latest fashion trends, movies, instagram, and homework on the internet, you can look up s****l education and consent. you get no pardons for not even trying, at least not from me.
dear bengali guys,
you are intelligent grown men. you’re men from a wonderful culture who already have s**t going against you in the world. you don’t need to go out of your way to protect women, but stop taking advantage of us and being proud of it. be better than this, do better, represent bangladeshis better.